As we embrace the beauty and busyness of the holiday season, let’s remember that the most meaningful gift we can give ourselves is grace. Grace to rest when we’re weary. Grace to say “no” when we need to protect our peace. Grace to let go of perfection and embrace the moments that truly matter. When we nourish ourselves with kindness, patience, and understanding, we fill our cups to overflow, allowing us to give more freely and joyfully to those around us.

In a world that’s becoming more complicated and materialistic, I want her to understand that happiness doesn’t come from “more.” What I noticed was that giving didn’t feel like a chore to her. It felt exciting. And it reminded me that kids don’t need us to teach them how to be kind—they’re naturally compassionate. They just need us to give them the space to act on it.

Ads constantly tell them that happiness comes in neatly wrapped boxes, and society fuels the idea that success is about having more. But deep down, we know that isn’t true. No toy, no gadget, no flashy gift can replace the deeper joy that comes from connection and purpose.