It takes courage to look at where we’ve been, acknowledge it for what it is, and still choose to move forward. And yet, without that step, the idea of a "new year" remains just that—a calendar change, not a life change. Because if we carry the same old patterns into January, it’s not really a new year, it’s just a continuation of the old one.

As we embrace the beauty and busyness of the holiday season, let’s remember that the most meaningful gift we can give ourselves is grace. Grace to rest when we’re weary. Grace to say “no” when we need to protect our peace. Grace to let go of perfection and embrace the moments that truly matter. When we nourish ourselves with kindness, patience, and understanding, we fill our cups to overflow, allowing us to give more freely and joyfully to those around us.

In a world that’s becoming more complicated and materialistic, I want her to understand that happiness doesn’t come from “more.” What I noticed was that giving didn’t feel like a chore to her. It felt exciting. And it reminded me that kids don’t need us to teach them how to be kind—they’re naturally compassionate. They just need us to give them the space to act on it.